Veteran Nollywood actor, Anayo Onyekwere, better known as Kanayo O. Kanayo, recently set social media buzzing. After penning a heartfelt yet thought-provoking birthday message to his daughter, Valerie, on her 25th birthday.
In a post shared on Instagram, the legendary actor celebrated his daughter’s growth while also setting clear expectations for her future. In the message, Kanayo expressed deep love and admiration for Valerie, whom he affectionately referred to as “Uloaku,” meaning “house of wealth.” Alongside his blessings and fatherly reflections. The actor laid down a bold timeline: by the time she turns 27, he expects her to have either gotten married, completed her PhD, or moved out of his home as an independent adult.
“From little Valerie to a future Madam Uloaku,” he wrote. Urging her to take the day as an opportunity for self-reflection. He advised her to evaluate her life choices identifying habits and behaviors to adopt, repeat, or eliminate. His message blended affection with firm guidance, sparking conversations across social media platforms.
Kanayo also touched on their father-daughter relationship over the years. Recalling Valerie’s past frustrations about his frequent absence due to film commitments. He explained that the nature of acting especially at his level requires constant travel. “Good actors are always on the move,” he stated. “They’re always hired. Thank God I’m still active and relevant in the industry.”
His post quickly went viral, with many praising his honesty and old-school parenting style. Some applauded the tough love, while others debated the pressure of setting such milestones. Regardless, Kanayo’s blend of encouragement, discipline, and open communication resonated with parents and young adults alike.
As Valerie steps into her mid-twenties, its clear her father’s words come from a place of love and a desire to see her thrive academically, professionally, or personally. Whether she chooses marriage, higher education, or independence. One thing is certain, she has a supportive yet expectant father watching from the sidelines.
