Renowned Nigerian author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie has urged young women to make thoughtful and intentional choices when selecting a life partner. Speaking during a recent interactive session with students. The award-winning writer emphasized the lasting impact of marriage, warning against settling out of desperation or societal pressure.
Adichie, best known for her global bestsellers Half of a Yellow Sun and Americanah. Encouraged women to prioritize kindness, emotional support, and shared values over fleeting desires or social expectations.
“It’s really important who you choose. Young women, choose wisely,” she advised.
“Sometimes, you know deep down that the person isn’t right for you, but you feel pressured to get married. Don’t let desperation push you into a lifelong decision.”
The 47-year-old literary icon added that a good partner can positively transform one’s life.
“If you choose someone who is kind and supportive, it makes all the difference. I can confidently say I chose well. There are still good men out there.”
Adichie has been married to Dr. Ivara Esege, a Nigerian-American medical doctor, since 2009. The couple shares three children a daughter and twin sons.
Her remarks come shortly after she publicly embraced her cultural identity by reclaiming her traditional Igbo name, Chimamanda, as a personal journey of reconnection and pride in her roots.
As a vocal advocate for women’s empowerment and gender equality. Adichie continues to use her platform to inspire, educate, and challenge societal norms. Her recent advice resonates strongly in a culture where marriage is often prioritized over personal fulfillment.
Her message to young women remains clear: don’t rush, don’t settle, and always choose wisely because the right life partner can shape the course of your future.
